Of Clutter, I Utter

Lately I’ve been asking friends and clients about this rather messy topic.  I was given so many examples of clutter, I thought I’d use them for a quiz to see how clutter affects your life!  

Take the Quiz

Give yourself one point for each yes…be honest.


Sum up your score.  Here are my thoughts on your total:

0 points- We will cover lying and its harmful effects on relationships in a future blog.

1 - 2 points- You could write this article!  Please come to my house and help me get organized.

3 - 5 points- You are on your way, but still could use some strategies to declutter.

6 - 19 points- I’m here to help!  Please keep reading.

20 + points- Reality TV is looking for you.

If you scored high on this quiz, you are not alone.  As I started to talk about clutter, I realized that in addition to costing us time, money and productivity, clutter causes unneeded stress.

What’s the connection between “Investing in Your Values” and clutter?  Well, first of all, I’ve yet to meet someone who values clutter.  But seriously, the process of clarifying your values begins with stripping away things that aren’t important, but take up your energy.  


Observations on Clutter

Here are some observations about clutter from friends and colleagues:

A friend mentioned that his garage was so full, he had to park his car outside and it was vandalized.

Another friend mentioned that when she moved two years ago, she never unpacked 10 boxes and they were still in her basement.  They probably will stay there until her next move.  Did she really need to keep all these items? 

A client remarked that the clutter in her home was a constant reminder of work to be done.  This added stress and overwhelmed her as she did not know how to begin. 

A colleague added that they love the feeling of dropping boxes off at Goodwill - it brings a sigh of relief that they are getting organized, while helping others at the same time.

A close friend’s mother recently moved into an assisted living facility.  The responsibility for getting her mother’s home ready for sale fell to her.  Mom never threw anything away, and my friend had to sort through 50 years of “collected items.”  (The actual words my friend used to describe the clutter cannot be printed.)  The effort took over her weekends for months, taking her away from family, and unfortunately led to resentment between the two of them.  My friend vowed that she would never make her children go through the same experience.


Let’s Begin the Process

Like so many things in life, the first step is the hardest.  Once you get past that, you will be amazed what you can accomplish. 

So, where to begin?  Schedule a time to declutter, just as you would for other things on your to-do list.  Maybe a quiet Sunday morning...Do it now while it is snowing and zero degrees. 

Start with one room at a time.  Pretend you are moving - so everything needs to come out of the closets, drawers and shelves.  Divide your stuff into four boxes: throw out, keep, donate, and store for later.  Then throw out everything you are storing for later.  Just kidding.  Not really. 

Less is more!  Get rid of:

Take advantage of our digital world.  There are services that will take a box of photos, scan and store them on-line for you. 

Find a convenient place for everything that’s left.  Finish one room before moving on to the next.  And keep an eye out for future clutter.  Stop it before it starts!  Before you buy anything, “shop your home” first.  Do you really need it? 

Keep what is meaningful, what truly can’t be replaced.  The decision process - what stays and what goes - can be cathartic.  (Look that up online - do you really need the Funk & Wagnalls dictionary you got with points from Jewel in 1982?)

Once you have spent the time to declutter, relax and take time to enjoy your more spacious home.  (Now where did I put that wine glass?) I promise you’ll want to keep things that way.

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My next blog will provide steps to declutter your financial life.